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Women Expatriates
Sep 29,2007 00:00
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Women ExpatriatesWomen expatriates have to be resilient and resourceful if they wish to be successful in foreign cultures. Men in all cultures are expected to seek gainful employment. Women in all cultures face resistance by some men when they try to advance their careers. This is often the case with management careers. The fact that senior women managers are few in number and complain of glass ceilings has been much discussed by researchers. It is stressed here that women expatriates have to be more skilled at adjusting to a foreign culture than their male counterparts. A US woman working in Bahrain will find many Bahrainis looking askance at her, since home making is not her first priority. Ellen Moore was often greeted with sympathy when she revealed that she had no children (Ellement, Maznevski and Lane, 1990). Most married Bahrainis like to have children, and at least one son. Hence most Bahraini women regard their careers as subordinate to their roles as mothers. A woman like Ellen Moore trying to befriend local Bahrainis finds that she is often asked questions about her life choices, and even treated as a woman who has made inappropriate life choices. A man in Ellen Moore's position might invite the admiration of local nationals. Ellen Moore, on the other hand, is received with mixed reactions. Some Bahrainis might advise her that she is in some way 'incomplete' because she has no children. Women expatriates have to respond to such situations in ways that reflect their own individuality. One response is to maintain strictly formal relations with local nationals. Then a woman does not have to justify her life decisions. This can be onerous when done on a continuous basis. Women who opt for such a response can end up feeling lonely. Another response is to challenge the interlocutor's views on a woman's role in society. Such a stance may convey the impression that the woman expatriate is discourteous. A third response is for the woman expatriate to take people's curiosity, even disapproval, in her stride. Assuming a liberal position regarding the way people react to her would reflect maturity on the woman expatriate's part. As the boxed case study illustrates, many problems can arise on account of the inappropriate attitudes, behaviour and skills of expatriates. An erroneous position expatriates can adopt is to assume that they are always right, and that problems arise because the local culture is not sufficiently enlightened. In other words, using the parlance of transactional analysts, they think, 'I am OK, you are not OK.' Other problems expatriates can create include:
If it is customary for managers to congregate together over a leisurely lunch, expatriates might indicate their desire to be part of the group by adopting that custom. An expatriate interviewed for this book recounted the mistake he made when he joined a subsidiary in Spain. He found Spanish managers taking an hour's lunch at 1 pm. An American, he was accustomed to having a sandwich at his desk for lunch, and continued to do so. He was proud of using even his lunchtime for company work. He was subsequently astonished to find that whenever he went to a Spanish colleague's office to discuss professional matters, the colleague would politely convey that he was busy at that moment. Fortunately he was advised that the Spaniards used their lunchtime to network with colleagues and establish rapport, so subsequent professional interactions are facilitated. Since the US manager did not have the time to establish congenial work relations at lunchtime, the Spaniards did not have time for him when he went to see them in their offices. It was not a straightforward case of tit-for-tat. The Spaniards genuinely did not have time for the small talk that the expatriate wanted to engage in before getting down to business. A problem that expatriates often face is readjustment to their own culture once they are repatriated. Expatriates can feel that they are looking at their culture through new eyes when they return home. They may see how certain things in their own country could be done in a different way, since they have actually seen those things being done differently in another culture. Several organizational implications arise from expatriates returning home to work. First, they will be able to identify areas that can be improved in their home branch. They should make recommendations in a way that is acceptable in their culture. Second, they should have acquired the ability to step out of a situation and view it from many angles. An expatriate interviewed for this book, a Spaniard who returned to Spain after spending some time in the United States, described himself as having become more reflective on his return. |