The
Intrapersonal Realm
The intrapersonal realm is that part of us that is internal.
It is what goes on in our minds whether it is conscious or unconscious. Our
lives are in large part dominated by what we think and feel and subsequently act
out. There is, in effect, a blooming buzzing confusion that is with us every
minute. It is in a sense who we are and is so omnipresent as to often escape any
form of direct inspection. Why do we seem to warm up to one of two people we
just met and not the other? Why might we resent being criticized by a supervisor
or cringe at receiving a direct order? Why might feelings of anger be acted on
by one individual in a self- and other-destructive manner and not acted on by
another person experiencing the same situation? These questions are intended to
draw the reader’s attention to much of what we simply take for granted. There is
a vast realm of conscious and unconscious process that takes place within us
that influences our behavior. The intrapersonal realm amounts to a black box
with much going on in it that is at the same time out of awareness.
This realm includes much of what is written about individual
psychology, and can become the focal point of therapy if thoughts and feelings
grow to be out of bounds thereby introducing personal dysfunction. Individuals
starting from infancy may be exposed to life experience that is nurturing or
along a range toward less than satisfactorily nurturing, culminating in highly
pathological relationships with caretaking others. The degree of dysfunction
that lies within this context deeply imprints the infant, child and young adult
with a range of self-experience. This experience may be satisfying and secure,
thereby promoting self-esteem, or much less so, thereby promoting exceptional
personal fragility and hard to tolerate and regulate anxiety-ridden
self-experience. These childhood trends are then transferred to some degree into
the balance of one’s life experience, thereby making life fulfilling or much
less so. These intrapsychic dynamics enter directly into the workplace filling
it with hard to understand psychologically defensive tendencies that may make
the person an unpredictable employee (Allcorn and Diamond, 1997). Reflection
upon oneself and one’s experience within the workplace is very likely all that
is needed to validate the importance of intrapsychic dynamics.
In Sum
Individual psychology offers to those trying to understand
the workplace a hard to comprehend complexity and diversity that have led to
many different insights into human nature within the workplace. This complexity
defies efforts to directly and even indirectly manage or reengineer it, thereby
squarely confronting those who aspire to lead others with an extraordinary
challenge.