Women
Expatriates
Women expatriates have to be resilient and resourceful if
they wish to be successful in foreign cultures. Men in all cultures are expected
to seek gainful employment. Women in all
cultures face resistance by some men when they try to advance their careers.
This is often the case with management careers. The fact that senior women
managers are few in number and complain of glass ceilings has been much
discussed by researchers. It is stressed here that women expatriates have to be
more skilled at adjusting to a foreign culture than their male counterparts.
A US woman working in Bahrain will find many Bahrainis looking
askance at her, since home making is not her first priority. Ellen Moore was
often greeted with sympathy when she revealed that she had no children (Ellement, Maznevski and
Lane, 1990). Most married Bahrainis like to have children, and at least one
son. Hence most Bahraini women regard their careers as subordinate to their
roles as mothers. A woman like Ellen Moore trying to befriend local Bahrainis
finds that she is often asked questions about her life choices, and even treated
as a woman who has made inappropriate life choices. A man in Ellen Moore's
position might invite the admiration of local nationals. Ellen Moore, on the
other hand, is received with mixed reactions. Some Bahrainis might advise her
that she is in some way 'incomplete' because she has no children. Women
expatriates have to respond to such situations in ways that reflect their own
individuality.
One response is to maintain strictly formal relations with local
nationals. Then a woman does not have to justify her life decisions. This can be
onerous when done on a continuous basis. Women who opt for such a response can
end up feeling lonely. Another response is to challenge the interlocutor's views
on a woman's role in society. Such a stance may convey the impression that the
woman expatriate is discourteous. A third response is for the woman expatriate
to take people's curiosity, even disapproval, in her stride. Assuming a liberal
position regarding the way people react to her would reflect maturity on the
woman expatriate's part.
As the boxed case study illustrates, many problems can arise on
account of the inappropriate attitudes, behaviour and skills of expatriates. An
erroneous position expatriates can adopt is to assume that they are always
right, and that problems arise because the local culture is not sufficiently
enlightened. In other words, using the parlance of transactional analysts, they
think, 'I am OK, you are not OK.' Other problems expatriates can create
include:
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using management practices developed in one culture in
another culture, without ascertaining whether those practices would find
acceptance;
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being overly friendly or overly distant;
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not adapting to the social patterns of the company in the
new culture.
If it is customary for managers to congregate together over a
leisurely lunch, expatriates might indicate their desire to be part of the group
by adopting that custom. An expatriate interviewed for this book recounted the
mistake he made when he joined a subsidiary in Spain. He found Spanish managers
taking an hour's lunch at 1 pm. An American, he was accustomed to having a
sandwich at his desk for lunch, and continued to do so. He was proud of using
even his lunchtime for company work. He was subsequently astonished to find that
whenever he went to a Spanish colleague's office to discuss professional
matters, the colleague would politely convey that he was busy at that moment.
Fortunately he was advised that the Spaniards used their lunchtime to network
with colleagues and establish rapport, so subsequent professional interactions
are facilitated. Since the US manager did not have the time to establish
congenial work relations at lunchtime, the Spaniards did not have time for him
when he went to see them in their offices. It was not a straightforward case of
tit-for-tat. The Spaniards genuinely did not have time for the small talk that
the expatriate wanted to engage in before getting down to business.
A problem that expatriates often face is readjustment to their own
culture once they are repatriated. Expatriates can feel that they are looking at
their culture through new eyes when they return home. They may see how certain
things in their own country could be done in a different way, since they have
actually seen those things being done differently in another culture.
Several organizational implications arise from expatriates
returning home to work. First, they will be able to identify areas that can be
improved in their home branch. They should make recommendations in a way that is
acceptable in their culture. Second, they should have acquired the ability to
step out of a situation and view it from many angles. An expatriate interviewed
for this book, a Spaniard who returned to Spain after spending some time in the
United States, described himself as having become more reflective on his
return.